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The early days with a newborn and a toddler are an emotional rollercoaster, wonderful and challenging all at once. I remember feeling so torn, wanting to soak up every precious moment with my new baby but also worried that my older child would feel left out or even resentful. Finding ways to give your toddler independent, enriching playtime isn’t just a way to keep them busy; it’s a gift for both of you. Here are my top picks for toys that helped me get through those early days, even if they just bought me 15 minutes here and there!
1. Montessori Wooden Stacking Rocks
These beautiful wooden stacking rocks became a lifesaver for me during feeding times. They’re calming, and it’s amazing how much focus they inspire as toddlers try to balance one rock on top of another. Watching my little guy concentrate on building his tower felt like a win. He was learning patience and hand-eye coordination, and I was able to focus on bonding with my newborn.
2. Busy Board for Toddlers
Busy boards are a godsend for little hands that always want to be doing something. Between all the zippers, buttons, and latches, my toddler was engrossed for ages (or at least, what felt like ages!). This was my go-to toy during those critical diaper changes or quick moments I needed with my newborn. It felt so reassuring to know he was engaged in his own “big kid” activities.
3. LeapFrog My Own Leaptop
This little laptop was such a hit because it let my toddler feel just like mom and dad! He loved “typing” and “sending emails,” and I loved that it was packed with letters, sounds, and fun songs that kept him entertained long enough for me to get some much-needed one-on-one time with the baby. My first born was actually given this the day I went into the hospital so he did not give his grandma a hard time. This one is perfect for toddlers who always want to be doing what they see us doing.
4. Magnetic Tile Building Set
These tiles were a revelation. My little one was totally captivated, creating endless towers and shapes. They’re incredibly versatile – he could play independently, and every time he built something new, his pride was priceless. And for me? The quiet minutes these tiles brought were pure gold, allowing me to snuggle with my newborn and catch a moment to just breathe.
5. Melissa & Doug Water Wow Coloring Books
Finding a mess-free art activity is like finding a hidden gem when you’re juggling two little ones. These Water Wow books kept my toddler engaged without any mess to clean up afterward – just water, no worries. Watching him proudly show off each page gave me time to breathe and be fully present with the baby.
6. Wooden Shape Sorter Cube
Sometimes, the simplest toys are the best. My little guy loved figuring out which shape fit where, and it turned into this wonderful, quiet-time activity that boosted his problem-solving skills. It was a comforting feeling to know he was working through his own little puzzle while I got to give all my attention to the baby – even for just a few minutes.
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Every one of these toys helped create space for me to bond with my newborn while keeping my toddler happy, engaged, and feeling loved. For any mom with two little ones, even 15 minutes can be a game-changer. Rotating these toys kept things fresh, and when I saw my toddler light up with each new activity, it made me feel like I was doing okay.
Motherhood is tough, and balancing a newborn with a toddler isn’t easy. But with a little help from these engaging toys, it’s possible to find those precious moments to bond, breathe, and give each child the love they need.
This kind of connection-building can go a long way in making those busy days a little smoother. Let me know if you'd like any additional tips or have specific experiences to share!
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