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Hosting Thanksgiving or Friendsgiving is exciting, but let’s be real—it can also feel overwhelming. Between meal prep, decorating, and managing guests, it’s easy to lose sight of what the holidays are all about: connection, gratitude, and good food. As a mom of two energetic boys, I’ve learned a thing or two about keeping it manageable (and fun!). Whether it’s your first time hosting or you’re a seasoned pro, here are some tried-and-true tips to survive—and actually enjoy—Thanksgiving and Friendsgiving. 
1. Start Planning Early
The key to a stress-free event is preparation. A week or two before the big day, finalize your guest list and menu. Assign dishes to friends or family who are willing to bring something. For Friendsgiving, potluck style is the way to go—it’s budget-friendly and takes pressure off the host.
Pro Tip: Use a shared Google Doc or an app like SignUpGenius to organize who’s bringing what. It avoids duplication and ensures there’s enough pie to go around.
2. Simplify the Menu
You don’t need a five-star feast for it to feel special. Stick to a few crowd-pleasers and consider semi-homemade options like store-bought pies or pre-prepped sides. I’ve found that a perfectly roasted turkey, mashed potatoes, a seasonal salad, and rolls can make everyone happy without overloading the stove.
For Friendsgiving, ask each guest to bring a dish that’s meaningful to them. It’s a fun way to learn about traditions while lightening your load.
3. Create a Cozy Atmosphere
The vibe matters just as much as the food. Set the table the night before with simple decor like mini pumpkins, candles, or fall leaves. I love incorporating crafts my kids make, like handprint turkeys, to add a personal touch.
Dim lighting and a holiday playlist can also make your space feel warm and inviting.
4. Prepare for Kid Chaos
If you’re hosting families, having a plan for kids is a lifesaver. Set up a play area or have activities like coloring books, puzzles, or even a simple scavenger hunt. A pack-and-play is great for keeping little ones safe and happy while you mingle.
For older kids, a movie corner with seasonal favorites like *Charlie Brown Thanksgiving* keeps them entertained so the adults can relax. 
5. Keep Drinks Simple
Instead of playing bartender all night, set up a self-serve drink station. Offer a signature cocktail (or mocktail), wine, and a few non-alcoholic options like sparkling cider or infused water.
Pro Tip: A crockpot full of mulled wine or hot apple cider is a festive and hands-off solution that smells amazing.
6. Don’t Be Afraid to Delegate
As much as you want to do it all, don’t. Guests are usually happy to help if you give them small tasks like refilling drinks, serving dessert, or even helping with cleanup. For Friendsgiving, it’s practically expected!
7. Take Time for Yourself
It’s easy to get lost in the hustle, but take a moment to breathe. Even if it’s just 10 minutes with a cup of coffee before everyone arrives, centering yourself will help you stay calm and enjoy the event.
8. Embrace Imperfection
Things will go wrong, and that’s okay! The turkey might be overcooked, or someone might spill wine on your new tablecloth. These are the moments that make memories. Laugh it off and focus on what matters: the people around your table.
Final Thoughts
Hosting Thanksgiving or Friendsgiving doesn’t have to be stressful. With a little planning, a touch of creativity, and some help from your guests, you can create a memorable gathering without losing your mind. Most importantly, remember to enjoy yourself—it’s your holiday, too!
What are your favorite hosting tips? Let me know in the comments!